In short, be determined. It may take years, it may take days but more than likely it will take more time than you have on earth and there is no point giving up if it doesn't happen tomorrow or the day or year after. It will take longer than most of us know because it is a form of self discovery to understand ourselves and our purpose. None of this as said comes without determination. Our day to day lives require this determination and improvements will happen through this determination. Change is an aim we must all look toward, things can be adjusted to make our lives for the better, if we are content with the way things are then so be it. There is always higher and better, there is always things that we are capable of that ourselves, do not know or do not understand. Determination is a key factor in allowing all of this to happen since without it there is more likely hood of failure or lack of change to happen in our life.